Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear would say my Mum

 

Been thinking of Mum a lot lately she will often pop into my head.

Like at night and often during the day when I hear myself saying “it’s ok” over and over, I think of Mum who say often during the day “oh dear”.

Why do we say these things well with Mum it was when she was in pain or struggling to o something, Mum at first would say “shit, shit, shit” but after someone said something to her about it, she changed to “oh dear”.

Me I say “ok” when I am struggling to do stuff or when I am in pain.

Do you or anyone you know do the same thing.

I Love You

 

Hello everyone, question for you, how often do you say the words “I love you”. Do such words come easy for you?

They do for me and for pretty much most of my family, we end a phone call with those words, when in person we hug and say I love you when parting company.

It isn’t just the adults who do this, but my grandchildren do it as well. I ring Sam each morning Monday to Friday at least twice to make they are out of bed and at then end of each call we both say I love you.

My father wasn’t raised in an environment where such words were said but when he married mum that changed and after a while these words became second nature to him.

Passwords

 

You know what I find frustrating, Tim changing his passwords for things all the bloody time because he keeps forgetting what the password or pin was. I don't have that problem, why because I write the damn things down like my father taught me to do. Yes I know that there are those who say that's not safe but as dad said we all do many things that are not considered safe and it is better then being locked out due to forgetting.

I have had a computer book with stored information like email addresses and passwords or pins written down and even though Tim does have the same thing he still manages to stuff it up somehow.

When I was shopping around for a new diary for 2024 I came across a password for storing your passwords.

How are you with remembering passwords?

Do you write them down?

Do you the same password for a number of sites?

Left Handed

 

Any left handed people in your family?

Are you left handed?

I have been thinking about how different it is to be left handed I have a sister and a niece no not mother and daughter just so you know, anyway what was I saying. Oh yeah I have been told by them that it isn't just different but can be difficult at times doing things left handed.

Thankfully I don't know of any problems my sister had at school except I think there was one teacher who told mum that Jeannie should be using her right hand and mum told her no that's not how Jeannie is and not to try and force the issue.

I do however, know that there was a time when being left handed was treated as a bad thing maybe even a sin by some people and that when at school left handed children were forced to use their right hand.

To me forcing a child to do something that doesn't come naturally for them like which hand they prefer to use. I feel the treatment of left handed children by some teachers was not just wrong but cruel, no child should be made to feel like they are committing a sin by using their left hand.

How can using one's left hand be a sin to me that is just stupid. It can be hard enough being a lefty or a south paw as my grandfather use to say, writing isn't as easy for a lefty as well preforming other tasks such as using a pair of scissors unless they are left handed scissors.

According to Google Lefties make up only about 10 percent of the population, but studies find that individuals who are left-handed are more creativity, have more imagination and intuition and like to daydream. They're also better at rhythm and visualization.

How it started and taking it one day at a time

 

Hello everyone and welcome to a wet and cool Saturday reading the comments on my post about Parkinson's this morning over at my main blog made me think about how I feel about things.

Well I feel like I can take a few steps forward only to slide backwards, for me Parkinson's is like trying to walk across a river by stepping on slippery stones. You are not sure footed and feel like you are going to end up on the ground at any moment.

I have been travelling this route for what seems at times like ages, I first noticed a tremor in one of my right hand fingers after dropping Leo (Sam) off at school one morning, it was in fact the first day of school in 2015 and a teacher had to pry him off me in order for me to leave. I was walking back to the car and noticed my finger moving, I remember thing what the hell is wrong with my finger, I then got in the car and left and the movement stopped and I gave it no more thought till it happened again a few days later.

Over time I started to notice it when I did other things like using the computer mouse but still didn't think much of it, over time though it started happening more and more. I did manage to hide the tremor from my family for 6 to 8 months different people noticed it at different times.

After my doctor noticed it I was referred to a neurologist at the hospital who said it was a Functional Tremor and wouldn't get any worse. He prescribed some Parkinson's medication which did very little but he only had my try it for 4 weeks and only the one type before giving that up.

He was wrong things did get worse so I went back to see him and he referred me to a movement disorder clinic which turned out to be just another neurologist who agreed with the first guy.

When things got really bad I decided to see another neurologist privately the first one wasn't sure he thought it was kind of like a Functional Tremor but not completely and then I was referred to the lady at Westmead (Sydney) a 2hr drive from here and thing started to improve, that was only a couple of years ago and it was only after she arranged for me to be seen by a team of doctors that the term Parkinson's was mentioned.

My mum always said it was some kind of Parkinson's and my GP also said he thought it was more like Parkinson's.

I am thankfully that I have always been one who takes life one day at a time, as now each day is different with it's own struggles.

What we hear may not be what was said

 Been thinking about how people can hear the words being said but interprets in their head something different to what was meant. I feel many people hear, interpret, perceive in their own way and then get it into their head that they are being lied to because what they have heard and understood isn't necessary what was meant.

I know with Tim we can tell him something about how we are feeling perhaps about something he has said or done but if asked to explain what he things we are trying to say he will come back with something very different. He will often come back that we are saying he is stupid or he is wrong, at times we may say that we do feel his understanding of a situation maybe wrong. Of course as I write this I cannot think on a damn example to give you which is annoying.

Sometimes I have said that just because something isn't how we want it to be doesn't make it wrong just different.

Waiting not doing

 Hello everyone who is choosing to read this new take on an old blog from now on this will be about whatever trivial random thoughts that pop into my head.

Like Sunday night I was thinking about how some people have to wait and wait and wait for others to do stuff for them this may not be how they would like it but it is how it has become.

I used to be able to just do stuff I wanted to do, like go to the shops either for stuff I needed or just to wonder around having a look at what there is. Then I lost my licence being declared by my doctor as being unfit to drive.

Now I have to wait for someone to either drive me to the shops or as they often prefer go shopping for me. No one wants to admit that they find it easier to just go and get what I need over taking me to the shops. This was made worse by Covid and even though life for most has returned to pre-covid normal I feel it hasn't for me.

Even at home there are things I need help with and I as for either Tim or Tasha to help me but it isn't uncommon for me to still be waiting an hour or more later.

Thankfully I am back to doing a lot of shit around the house myself but I am unable to drive myself to the shops. I am also thankfully for online shopping but it isn't the same.