MERRY CHRISTMAS
2020 WAS A HARD YEAR
2021 MUST BE BETTER
UNLESS IT'S WORSE...........
JUST SAYING
THIS YEAR HAS SEEN ME DETERIORATE
SO I AM PLANNING TO SEE ANOTHER
NEUROLOGIST IN 2021,, HOPEFULLY
TIM WILL BE 60 IN JANUARY
MUM WILL BE 81 IN JANUARY
I HAVE MY DAUGHTERS & TIM FOR
PHYSICAL SUPPORT AND THE WHOLE
FAMILY FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT.
MERRY CHRISTMAS
2020 WAS A HARD YEAR
2021 MUST BE BETTER
UNLESS IT'S WORSE...........
JUST SAYING
THIS YEAR HAS SEEN ME DETERIORATE
SO I AM PLANNING TO SEE ANOTHER
NEUROLOGIST IN 2021,, HOPEFULLY
TIM WILL BE 60 IN JANUARY
MUM WILL BE 81 IN JANUARY
I HAVE MY DAUGHTERS & TIM FOR
PHYSICAL SUPPORT AND THE WHOLE
FAMILY FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT.
Good afternoon, yesterday I had a doctor's appointment and for some reason I never got around to doing a post and today I am restless and not with it but I am writing this.
On the 28th October 1969 my little sister Susan Denise was born she is the third child with two older sisters and two younger siblings.
Sue is very much like me in many ways and as different as can be in others.
Sue has been married twice divorced once ad widowed the second time around. She has 4 children and 7 grandchildren who she loves and adores naturally.
I am hoping she has a great day and feels the love from her family as well as their appreciation.
TAKE THIS CHILD
Take this child just for a loan
I'll lend you for a little time
a child of mine, he said for you
to love while they live and mourn
when they die.
It may be six or seven weeks, months or years
Or twenty two or three or longer still.
Will you to I call them back take care of them for me,
They will bring their charms to gladden your heart and
should their stay be brief, you'll have their lovely memories.
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise they will stay since all from earth return,
but there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn
I've looked the wild world over in my search for teaches true and
from the throngs that crowds lives lanes , I have selected you.
Now will you give this child all your love, nor think the labour vain, nor hate me when I come to call and take the child back again.
I fancied that you have heard them say, dear Lord thy will be done. For all the joy the child shall bring the risk of grief will run.
Will shelter them while their here and the happiness they bring, forever grateful for their stay.
But should the angels call for the child, much sooner then planned, you'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand and maybe someday we will.
THE ABOVE WAS WRITTEN BY MY MUM IN THE LATE 80'S AFTER THE DEATH OF MY COUSIN
Good morning here we are at the 22nd day of September, 36yrs ago on this day I went from being a Jenkins to a Meadows.
I meet Tim on the 9th June 1983 in my parents lounge-room this was because we met through a dating agency. I knew by our next date that he was the man for me.
In September that year he tells me ha had invited a few mates to our engagement party. I looked at him and said “what” you haven't even asked me to marry you., he laughed took my hands and said but you will won't you. My reply was not the point but of course I will.
Our engagement party was paired with my 21st and held at my parents place, it was a good night ending around 3 or 4am although Tim crashed in the back of his panel van around midnight, after he fell asleep on the toilet. The last to leave were Tim's mates and a couple of gatecrashes as in neighbours from up the road.
We married on the 22nd September 1984 in St Alban's church in front of around 100 guests. The reception was held in the church hall back then my mum was involved with the church so we got a good deal.
I wore a dress that had been my aunt's wedding dress, I was never thrilled with the dress but said nothing, I also had no say in the wedding care which was a traditional fruit cake, I do not eat fruit cake.
I have wanted to renew my vows for many years but Tim has no interest in doing so.
